婚姻維新記：幸福婚姻的100個(gè)簡(jiǎn)約法則 英漢對(duì)照

1.TheMundaneIsHeroic 2偉大的平凡2.SeePossibilitiesWhereOthersSeeObstacles 4在障礙中發(fā)現(xiàn)機(jī)會(huì)3.SetRulesforConflict 6沖突也要有規(guī)則4.AnyoneCanFindaHappyRelationship 8每個(gè)人都能找到自己的另一半5.It誷NotHowHardYouTry 10與如何努力無(wú)關(guān)6.YouHaveNothingtoEnvy 12一點(diǎn)也不嫉妒你7.AttitudeTriumphsoverOutcome 14態(tài)度勝于結(jié)果8.Don誸BeBoundbyTradition 16別讓傳統(tǒng)束縛住9.ThePastIsNottheFuture 18過(guò)去不是未來(lái)10.NoOneWinstheComparisonGame 20幸福不是比出來(lái)的11.SeetheLoveAroundYou 22看到自己身邊的愛(ài)12.DoingNothingIsRarelyaSolution 24逃避不是辦法13.You誰(shuí)lForgettheDisagreementbutRemembertheDisagreeing 26分歧可以忘掉,但爭(zhēng)吵卻會(huì)被牢記14.PursueWhatYouNeedForever,NotWhatYouWantToday 28追求自己真正需要的東西15.SeekHarmonyinYourLife 30尋找和諧16.TheRelationshipTest:AreYouLonely 32你孤獨(dú)嗎17.It誷theLittleThingsThatMattertheMost 34平常日子最重要18.ARelationshipRequiresTwoEquals 36婚姻中雙方要平等19.BewareofFairyTales 38別扮演童話(huà)故事中的主角20.CultivateaCommonInterest 40培養(yǎng)共同愛(ài)好21.TreattheDisease,NottheSymptom 42治病要治本22.There誷NoPointinPuttingOnaShow 44婚姻不是表演23.YouMakeYourOwnHistory 46走自己的路24.MaintainYourSenseofControl 48一切由你掌握25.MoneyCan誸BuyLove,butItCanBuyStress 50錢(qián)買(mǎi)不到愛(ài)情,卻能買(mǎi)來(lái)煩惱26.ThereAreNoMindReaders 52讓伴侶知道你的需要27.There誷NoNeedtoHurry 54不必著急28.FirendsSpeakfromExperience—TheirOwn 56不要聽(tīng)信別人的經(jīng)驗(yàn)之談29.DrinkLess 58少喝點(diǎn)兒酒30.DecideWhetherYouWanttoWinorBeHappy 60夫妻爭(zhēng)吵沒(méi)有贏家31.ASenseofHumorHelps 62多些幽默32.ThinkBeyondtheEngagement 64訂婚后的日子還長(zhǎng)著呢33.SeetheFriendshipinYourRelationship 66在愛(ài)情中發(fā)現(xiàn)友誼34.TheMostTimeIsNottheBestTime 68給彼此留出一些空間35.ReduceTVTime 70少看點(diǎn)兒電視36.TheWorldWillIntrudeonYourRelationship 72不可忽視外界的影響37.GentlemenPrefertheSameThingsLadiesPrefer 74男女觀念漸趨同38.LoveIsBlindbutLifeIsn誸Always 76生活是光明的39.BalanceDependsonWhichWayYouLean 78保持平衡40.ARelationshipbyAnyOtherNameIsJustasImportant 80名分并不重要41.TheFutureMattersMorethanthePast 82未來(lái)比過(guò)去更重要42.YouDon誸HavetoSeeEyetoEyeonEverything 84不必處處一致43.BeOpenwithEachOther 86坦誠(chéng)相對(duì)44.AccentuatethePositiveinAllAspectsofYourLife 88播撒好心情45.ItHelpstoBeFriends 90友誼對(duì)婚姻貢獻(xiàn)良多46.FoundationsAreCreatedintheBeginning 92開(kāi)始就打下良好的根基47.AmbivalenceIsaNegative 94明確地表達(dá)你的愛(ài)48.ShareHousework 96共同承擔(dān)家務(wù)49.ARelationshipStartswithYourself 98先要有愛(ài)心50.LetGooftheBurdenofPain 100放下包袱51.DevelopaHealthyCalm 102別太暴躁52.ThinkofYourOwnIdeal 104放棄幻想53.StayFlexible 106靈活一些54.ThinkAboutPotential 108保持希望55.EveninaRelationship,YouAreStillanIndividual 110保持獨(dú)立56.RestUp—ThisIsGoingtoTakeSomeEffort 112讓自己好好休息一下57.LiketheWayYouLook 114學(xué)會(huì)欣賞自己58.Don誸RomanticizethePast 116不要美化過(guò)去59.SharethePraiseandShareintheBlame 118榮辱與共60.YouCan誸FindWithoutLooking 120不找又怎么能找得到呢61.MeaningfulCommitmentIsMutualCommitment 122共同的努力才有意義62.FriendshipsPredictRelationships 124有朋友就不怕沒(méi)愛(ài)人63.PrepareforMilestones 126重大事件64.Don誸BringYourJobHomewithYou 128別把工作帶回家65.WeAssumeSimilarPreferences 130我們總是以己度人66.Don誸LetSecretsEatYouUp 132別讓秘密把你壓垮67.ToFindaBetterWay,LookWhereYou誺eBeen 134認(rèn)清現(xiàn)實(shí),尋找一條更好的路68.MoneyMattersLessoverTime 136金錢(qián)其實(shí)并不重要69.RecognizetheValueofSharedValues 138擁有共同的價(jià)值觀很重要70.UnderstandWhatYou誶eLookingfor 140明白自己的需要71.EveryoneHastheMeritofHisOwn 142每個(gè)人都有自己的優(yōu)點(diǎn)72.You誰(shuí)lNeedSomeRelationshipFriends 144交些已婚的朋友73.Don誸WaittoStartMovingintheRightDirection 146對(duì)了就別遲疑74.MusicCanBringUsTogether 148音樂(lè)讓我們?cè)谝黄?5.DefineWhatYouNeed 150確定你想要什么76.ShowYouCare,EvenWhenIt誷Hardto 152表現(xiàn)你的關(guān)心77.MakeYourDecisionsforPositiveReasons 154積極面對(duì)問(wèn)題78.ARelationshipIsBuiltonaFoundationofSupport 156互相支持是婚姻的基礎(chǔ)79.ThePiecesofYourLifeMustFitTogether 158讓你的生活保持完整80.MasterYourFears 160控制你的恐懼81.WeAreAllMuchMoreAlikethanDifferent 162相似多于不同82.LimitYourInterestinthePast 164別過(guò)分關(guān)注伴侶的過(guò)去83.GetYourRealityfromReality 166腳踏實(shí)地84.YouAreNeverTooOldtoFindLove 168真愛(ài)不嫌老85.WeLookInwardtoSeeHowPeopleFeelaboutUs 170你怎樣看自己,別人就怎樣看你86.BeWillingtoEvolve 172勇于改變87.Connect,SeeYou誶eCapable,andKnowYouCount 174自知且自信88.ReliabilityCountsaLot 176給對(duì)方以安全感89.YouAreCompletebyYourself 178因你自己而完整90.IntensityFades 180激情總會(huì)消逝91.BewareSecondOpinions 182警惕第三者的看法92.HaveFaithbutDon誸ForgetReality 184有信心的同時(shí)再現(xiàn)實(shí)些93.PayAttention 186留心伴侶的心情94.NicePeopleDon誸FinishLast 188好人不會(huì)剩到最后95.RelationshipsArelikeModernArt 190婚姻就像現(xiàn)代藝術(shù)96.It誷NotEasy,EvenifItLooksIs 192婚姻不易97.MostPeopleAreLookingforExperiencedRookies 194有經(jīng)驗(yàn)的新手更受青睞98.It誷forYou—orItIsn誸 196自己的事自己決定99.SeetheHorizon,WatchYourStep 198著眼將來(lái),始于足下100.TheSearchforPerfectionIsEndless 200完美無(wú)止境